Sugar Daddy

A friend told me that, as busy and demanding as my life is, a Sugar Daddy would suit me best. I explained that I have very little free time and that a SD would want more time than I could give, which is the same issue I have with traditional relationships. He then asked me to lists the reasons why I have little free time. I mentioned the children’s special medical needs and all the extra time and care that entails, the time it takes driving, cleaning, trying to earn an income, making auto and home repairs, pet care, and the inability to afford decent help for my children. My friend then asked if I would have more free time to date if I could hire a maid, pay someone to make the house repairs, hire a mechanic instead of repairing the cars myself, and so forth. Of course I knew that it would.

Then he gave me that look. You know, the one where someone patiently stares at you and you know you appear ignorant.

Then it clicked.

He saw the flash of comprehension and then asked how much happier would I be if I could regularly escape to go have fun. He explained that a SD would benefit me because it would allow more free time in my life by taking over some of the responsibilities.

I am not familiar with SD/SB dynamics. My friend insists that I’ve stereotyped them unconsciously. I had mentioned that my days of being an obedient sub were long past and he insisted that there were submissive Sugar Daddies. There were switch Sugar Daddies. That Sugar Daddies are all different and not just Doms.

Since our conversation my mind has ventured back to it. A submissive sugar daddy? An incredibly sexy man that would provide for things in my life simply so that it would free up my time to spend with them? A man that would do this and not expect full submission in return?

So, now I am poking around in the Sugar Daddy realm of FL as my curiosity is piqued. Tell me your experiences! What works, what doesn’t.

The independent and confident woman in me balks at the idea simply as I’ve always done everything on my own. However the logical side of me sees that this makes sense.